Parents feel bad because their children have naughty actions. However, in fact, when children have signs of “bad habits”, it is a proof that their intelligence is developing well.
1. Children often throw things
When children throw things, parents often label bad children. Surprisingly, the more children are banned, scolded, the more they will like to do so.
For young children, throwing furniture is one of the discovery activities. Children like to throw things because they can observe the movement of objects being thrown, and also observe the attitudes of their parents. If the item breaks, rolls to the ground, or makes a sound, the more excited it is, the more curious it is and the more it wants to find other objects to throw. The biggest meaning of this game is that children will be aware of the connection between themselves and the surrounding space, by throwing and moving objects.
Therefore, parents do not place sharp, pointed objects, glass objects or objects that could cause injury near the child. Instead, there are soft, paper and plastic items and toys for children to enjoy throwing and exploring.
2. Children like to play in the water
For parents, playing with water is certainly not fun at all. But for children, water is the most wonderful thing. Most children like to play with water, like to open the faucet, play with water for a long time in the bathroom, pour water on the floor, shake the cup of water to splash …
Not only is the game magical, water also helps children discover many things. Children will learn that being unable to cut or grasp water, some objects can float in the water while others will sink … When exposed to and exploring with water, they may feel temperatures. different, different physical forms, stimulating and developing the senses.
3. Children like to go barefoot
Mothers always think that the soil is dirty and force their children to wear shoes and socks. But you remind how, she still likes to go barefoot and run around.
A scientific study has proven that children walking barefoot can help stimulate the nerves in the soles of the feet, help children feel the ground clearly and adjust their speed according to the ground state, thanks to their posture. walk more. Meanwhile, the designers believe that the soles of children from 0 to 10 years old are not yet shaped, preferably barefoot, shoes only work for severe weather conditions and avoid foot damage. .
When the weather is not too harsh, so let me go barefoot more. You can also wear thin, non-slip socks.
4. Children pick up food
When children are 7 months or older, they begin to want to hold and touch food. When the child has held, is also the “nightmare” of parents began. Parents will find that they often do not put in their mouths, but will pick and crumble more. This game only ends until the child is 4 years old. In order not to get mad every time a child fights with food, parents should understand that this is an important stage for children to learn to eat actively. Some time after the child crumples the food, he will pick and put in his mouth. This helps stimulate the taste buds, increases appetite for food, and practices hand and eye coordination. For children, this is the most interesting game.
5. Children draw all over the house
In addition to tearing paper, graffiti around the house is also one of the hobbies of many children. Parents will complain that this is a dirty play, but in fact it is a game that helps children develop imagination and practical skills. At first, children can draw doodles, meaningless. But be patient and wait and see. Surely after that drawing can be a fish, a car or a young bird. Children do not understand the rules do not draw graffiti, so any empty spot can be drawn is drawing. Parents will often ban children and this can impair their creativity. The best solution is to give a child a wall and a rule, drawn only there.
6. Babies love to suck and suck their hands
Under normal circumstances, babies around 3 to 4 months of age start to like sucking on their fingers. Adults when taking care of children discover that this action always feels unhygienic and unsafe for their health.
In fact, young children like to “eat” hands is a normal manifestation of psychological development. The first year after a baby’s birth is called the “oral period” (the period in which a child has lust for the mouth), this is the first basic stage in the process of personality development.
Children mainly through the mouth to explore themselves and the outside world. Therefore, with the behavior of sucking the baby’s hands, parents should not be too worried and react strongly to avoid fear of children, adversely affecting psychology.
It is important to keep children’s hands clean, and to soothe and stay with them more, play with them, bring their attention to other things such as pictures, toys, etc. like the brain of the child.
7. Children are only attached to something special
This trend happens in many children: some children especially like a small scarf, a boat-shaped clothes … Some children only love a teddy bear. When not found, unresponsive, many babies start screaming, crying, despite being given similar things instead.
The tendency associated with children’s objects is a kind of action that complements the sense of security. Deliberately separating the child from the comfort zone will cause harm, for example the child does not sleep well at night.
Respect this dependency of the children, and at the same time give them a sense of sharing, a sense of security. Thanks to that, gradually, I will forget the special attachment to something.